Friday's Q&A

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Q: This guy I am absolutely crazy about claims to be crazy about me as well. We've only known eachother five days but there's something so different about him than any other guys I have ever met. I never EVER fell this fast and this is a total wirl-wind romance for me. It scares the crap out of me. And I was just wondering if what I'm feeling is real or is I'm just getting caught up in the feeling of lust?

-psychodicautumnchaos of gURL.com

My Advice: You should evaluate what it is in him that makes you feel this way. Can you come up with reasons such as you think he's funny, you have a lot in common with him, or you just love his personality? If so, then your not getting caught up in lust. But if all your feelings are romantic ones then your probably are. But don't worry, feelings of lust can turn into more. Try to see past his appearance and the romance and you might find something you really like.

Hope I helped!

Q: SO anyways...there is this guy, and I've liked him for a while. SO my stupid cousin told him...and he told my cousin that he is interested to try it. My question is to try what? What the crap does that mean? The boy I like is notorious for his charm and whatnot...and I just wanna know what do i do from here? I mean OBVIOUSLY regardless of whatever "interested to try it" means I should talk to him...but about what? How do I talk to him? People say to be myself... whenever I see him we are in a big group and I dont wanna call him out because the other may be like "ohh la la" ya know? Im just really lost. Confusing right? I need to stop analyzing but I just get too nervous. How would I start a conversation and stuff? I mean I want him to like me...

-Sunny from New York

My Advice: "Try it" most likely just means trying to pursue a relationship with you. Don't let your nerves about wanting him to like you interfere when your talking to him. He already seems to be interested in you. If he doesn't like you, well there's nothing you can do... just move on, he's not worth your time if he doesn't like you for you. If you see him around just say "hi, how are you." Compliment him, ask him what he's been up to, or what he's doing this weekend. Talk to him like you would anyone else. It should be really easy since he's already willing to "try it" and since it's out in the open that you like him.

Good luck, hope this helped!

Q: What are some ways to make a guy friend see you as more then a friend?

-Mel from Chicago.

My Advice: Honestly you should be upfront about your feelings. In this situation, there's no better way to show how you feel than to just say it. Sending hints and clues just confuses people. I was just in a situation where a guy friend wanted to be more than friends with me. We had been friends for a couple years and he started texting me a lot, calling me, asking me to go out just one on one, and sending small clues. But I still wasn't sure. I was surprised when he said he liked me, but it cleared everything up.

Ask him if he could see you and him being more than friends and if he wants to try dating. Text/IM him if it's too hard to say to his face. Also make sure you act like someone he would want to date when you're around him. You can't act like one of the guys anymore. Make sure you always look and smell good. Be polite, show him that you care about him as a friend and that you value his friendship. Don't feel bad if he doesn't feel the same way... It may not be meant to be. But still give it a try!

Hope this helped! Good luck!